As for the romantic love __1__ a man and a woman, some people say such love is cruel, while __2__ say it is sweet. __3__ others consider love to be blind. One thing is for sure: love is __4__ and paradoxical, and the definition of it may __5__ from person to person. __6__, people’s feelings about love depend __7__ whether they are in search of love, or suffering from the __8__ of love. Thus it is not easy __9__ the abstract idea of “love,” __10__ romantic love.