We are always trying to understand ourselves by asking “Why did I do that?” Certainly it
is true that each human being faces the question of understanding himself, even though he may
not put this question in so many words. Part of the answer to “Why did I do that?” is found in
the way the individual looks upon himself, or the way he sees himself. This is referred to as the
individual’s self-concept.
It is obvious that we will tend to act with more self-control, and be happier, if we can
gradually gain a better understanding of how we ourselves think and act, and what kind of
individuals we really are. For example, a young woman may “see herself ” as a poor
conversationalist and a kind of “wet blanket” when she goes out with her friends. Actually, she
is warm and friendly and well liked by all who know her. Here is a case where an individual has
formed a “self-concept” which is definitely not in line with the facts. If she could come to
realize the true situation, it would in all probability help her overcome this fear of meeting or
being with other people. The importance of an individual’s “self-concept” in influencing his
behavior is plainly evident.
【題組】48. Based on the context, the phrase “wet blanket” in the second paragraph most likely means
“____________.”
(A) a blanket that nobody wants
(B) a blanket that everybody enjoys
(C) a person who doubles other people’s fun
(D) a person who spoils other people’s fun
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