Try to accept that your teenager has to "belong" to the group of friends and that being forced to be different can cause great distress. You may think that a certain hairstyle or sensible shoes are ideal, but you probably don't want your child to be made fun of as a result. As far as possible, let your teenager make his/her own choices about these things, even if they're not your __11__.

    Permanent changes __12__ tattoos or piercings are different, thought, as they can't simply be removed when fashions move on. Explain to your teenager that these require much more careful thought than __13__ your hair orange or even shaving your head. If you're completely __14__ it, you do have a parent's right to insist that your teenager shouldn't have it done. Teenagers still need some boundaries.

     Marianne Moore (1887-1972) once said that her writing could be called poetry only because there was no other name for it. Indeed her poems appear to be extremely compressed essays that happen to be printed in jagged lines on the page. Her subjects were varied: animals, laborers, artists, and the craft of poetry. From her general reading came quotations that she found striking or insightful. She included these in her poems, scrupulously enclosed in quotation marks and sometimes identified in footnotes. Of this practice, she wrote, “‘Why the many quotation marks?’ I am asked. . . when a thing has been said so well that it could not be said better, why paraphrase it? Hence my writing is, if not a cabinet of fossils, a kind of collection of flies in amber.” Close observation and consentration on detail are the methods of her poetry. 

    Marianne Moore grew up in Kirkwood, Missouri, near St. Louis. After graduation from Bryn Mawr College in 1909, she taught commercial subjects at the Indian school in Carlisle, Pennsylvannia. Later, she became a librarian in New York City. During the 1920’s, she was editor of The Dial, an important literary magazine of the period. She lived quietly all her life, mostly in Brooklyn, New York. She spent a lot of time at the Bronx Zoo, fascinated by animals. 

    Her admiration of the Brooklyn Dodgers—before the team moved to Los Angeles—was widely known. Her first book of poems was published in London in 1921 by a group of friends associated with the imagist movement. From that time on, her poetry has been read with interest by succeeding generations of poets and readers. In 1952, she was awarded the Pulitzer Prize for her Collected Poems. She wrote that she did not write poetry “for money or fame. To earn a living is needful, but it can be done in routine ways. One writes because one has a burning desire to objectify what is indispensable to one’s happiness to express....”